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  • About Fr. Greg
    • Life is full of puzzles...
  • Somatic Experiencing (SE)
    • Trauma Symptoms
    • Developmental Trauma
    • Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs)
    • Window of Tolerance
    • Attachment Styles
    • Safety and Trauma
    • Trauma Resources
  • Addiction
    • What is sex addiction?
    • What is porn addiction?
    • Addiction Resources >
      • 12-Step Resources
    • Catholic Resources
    • Books / Articles / Podcasts
  • Take the Next Step
  • LGBTQ+: You are Loved

Q: What is trauma?

A: Most people associate trauma with events like war, violence, extremes of physical, emotional, or sexual abuse, crippling accidents, or natural disasters. And those are surely traumatic. Many "ordinary" events can also be traumatic.

Some categories of trauma might include (this is by no means an exhaustive list):


  • Medical hospitalizations, burns, surgeries​
  • Accidents, falls, head injuries
  • Suffocation, drowning, strangulation
  • Attacks such as rape, war, mugging, stabbing,  gunshot wound, animal attacks
  • Horror such as seeing an accident, watching someone else being abused, killing or hurting someone
  • Neglect, abandonment, loss, generational trauma, and ongoing abuse
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A definition offered by Karen Saakvitne is:
 
“Psychological trauma is the unique individual experience of an event [or a series of events] or of enduring conditions in which:
  • the individual’s ability to integrate his or her emotional experience is overwhelmed (i.e., his or her ability to stay present, understand what is happening, tolerate the feelings, or comprehend the horror), or
  • the individual experiences (subjectively) a threat to life, bodily integrity, or sanity.”  (Saakvitne et al, 2000)
​So trauma is an event or series of events that are so overwhelming and threatening to life or sanity that a person cannot cope. The mind may switch off (dissociate) during the event or, at the very least, it will not be able to hold together the different elements of the event afterwards and ‘integrate’ them or join them together. For instance, feelings may be separated off from thoughts, or the cognitive understanding of what is happening may be cut off from the sensory experience. It is this lack of ‘integration’ which characterizes trauma. Consequently, the traumatized individual may not be able to think coherently about what happened, or express or connect their feelings about the experience. The traumatic events can be stored ‘separately’ in the mind from normal, everyday experience and in some cases this will result in actual amnesia.
 
When the mind is overwhelmed by trauma, it finds it hard to store the event(s) as past memory. For a traumatized individual, the event continues to be experienced as ‘present’, as ‘still happening’, because the brain has not been able to integrate the whole experience and mark it with a kind of ‘context stamp’ that says ‘this is over’. It is therefore not surprising that the traumatized person continues to act and feel as if the trauma is still happening, and be over-reactive and hypervigilant. In order to cope with this, the traumatized individual may then try to shut off from the ‘now’ experience of trauma by numbing and avoidance. This then represents the triad of symptoms of PTSD: persistent re-experiencing of the event, avoidance of reminders and numbing of responsiveness, and hyperarousal. PTSD makes perfect sense in the light of the trauma being interpreted as still ‘now’.
 

Q: What symptoms appear after trauma?

A: The type of symptoms that occur after a traumatic experience can include:

  • Anxiety
  • Panic attacks
  • Hyperarousal
  • Constriction
  • Phantom pain
  • Disassociation or denial
  • Feeling helpless
  • Easily and frequently stressed out
  • Difficulty sleeping
  • Phobias
  • Dizziness or vertigo
  • Troubled breathing
  • Headaches
  • Pain
  • Fatigue
  • Hypervigilance
  • Abrupt mood swings
  • Sensitivity to light or sound
  • Nightmares or night terrors
  • Fibromyalgia
  • Emotional flooding
  • Hyperactivity
  • Gastrointestinal problems
  • Bladder Interstitial Cystitis
  • Pelvic pain
  • Self regulation problems
  • Feeling disconnected to life

If you experience any of these symptoms, even years after a traumatic event, do connect with Fr. Greg or by the Somatic Experiencing® Professional who can help you on your journey.
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Q: What does healing feel like?

A: Common benefits of resolving trauma through Somatic Experiencing can be:
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  • Reduction/alleviation of chronic pain and tension
  • Becoming more present and engaged in life
  • Increased resiliency to future stressors
  • Restored sense of optimism and hope
  • Developed sense of clarity and purpose
  • Increased ability to focus and concentrate
  • Greater sense of peace, ease, and calm
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Q: Are there other resources that I should explore?

A: Here is a list of resources that Fr. Greg recommends.

Q: What should I do if I am experiencing some of these symptoms of trauma?

A: Take the next step.  Click here.

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Q: What is sex addiction and how is it treated? 

A: Click here for additional information and Q&A regarding sex addiction. Fr. Greg uses Somatic Experiencing to support healing for those who are experiencing sex addiction.

Q: What is Somatic Experiencing?

A: Click here to learn more about Somatic Experiencing and how it contributes to the healing process and has changed lives.
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